as i've grown older and matured (ehem!) i've decided to stop persuading people. for instance if they agree and assent, very well. if not, i couldn't care less. a good example is a certain girlfriend of mine. when we decide to meet up, she always has excuses. i have gotten so tired of it that i no longer bother to convince her. i only ask her once and that's it for me.
yesterday was our grand high school reunion. i was joining together with three of my girlfriends. i asked her and my other girlfriend if they were coming. she said she would rather join her husband's high school reunion. i didn't reply anymore. when the party was underway, she asked how it was going. guess what i did? yes, i ignored her. and why not? why was she bothering me? she chose not to attend and that is her loss not mine.
call me mean or petty, that's okay. i just don't like people like her anymore, sorry. all she'll get from me is silent treatment.
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